I am an ESFJ

What's your Myer's Brigg personality type?

What makes an ESFJ tick?

The Dominant function is the judging one of Feeling. Characteristics associated with this function include:
Makes decisions on the basis of personal values
Is appreciative and accepting of people - enjoying company and seeking harmony
Assesses the impact of decisions on others, being sympathetic or compassionate
Takes a personal approach
The judging Feeling function is extroverted. That is, Feeling is used primarily to govern the outer world of actions and spoken words. The ESFJ will therefore:

• seek stable, harmonious relationships
  
• tend to adapt to the environment, taking on board those values that are held as important by friends and family, or society as a whole
  
• express the appreciation that is felt towards others
  
• tend to consider others' feelings before his/her own
  
• be sensitive to praise and criticism, and seek to conform to others' reasonable expectations
  The Feeling function is primarily supported by introverted Sensing perception, That is, Sensing perception is used primarily to manage the inner world of thoughts and emotions. This will modify the way that the Feeling is directed, by:
  
• focusing the (outer world) Feeling on current relationships and people, e.g.: through social events and fact-based conversation
  
• finding practical ways to be of service to people
  
• viewing people subjectively, observing facts that support harmonious relationships
  

The classic temperament of an ESFJ is Epimethean, or Melancholic, for whom a basic driving force is duty, service and the desire to belong.